The words: “fun” and “enjoy” are among the most used words in the English language.
We say we’re having “fun” when we are definitely not at work —with friends, eating or drinking and telling joke, dancing and so on!
The “enjoy” is more about command. Close ones tell us: ‘do not worry about it [whatever that is], enjoy yourself.
I’m not sure we understand the truest meaning of these two words. We’re (majority of us) obsessed with fun and enjoyment. After all— we think life comes around these two words. Consider one human activity which becomes “fun” and “enjoyment”; namely, sex!
Sex is designed to produce little people and the incentive to connect you to your intimate partner. Most people love to have sex (including me) and yet reluctant to produce little people!
In other words, most people love the feeling of “sex” and refuse to take the responsibility of its consequence; namely, children.
Some people are now looking for a worthwhile lifestyle. Surely, life must be more than “fun” and “enjoyment”. Some people are rejecting that notion because they find that ‘unexamined life is not worth living’ as the bearded Socrates reminds us. Happiness comes from doing human things. We cannot escape from ourselves.
For this article, I will take, with you in a small discussion.
Not all men, and not even a greater part of them( at the same time, it also concerns women`s) who love the feeling of "sex", refusing to take responsibility for the consequences.
Men are proud when they have children. Exceptions are those, who leave the women and children behind.
In nature, so, that men are more productive than women. And some men, though divorced, and married again, but is supported by the previous family. They do not leave their children to without support.
Of course, there is always an exception
In my knowledge west Europe is different. Women want to have too much sex and do not want to have children. Maybe one when they are older.
Men want to have more sex than they want to have children.